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How long will I have to pay alimony after my divorce?

As the primary earner in your marriage, you may view alimony, also known as postseparation support, as a cause for worry—especially if you are in your 30s or 40s. You…

How do judges make child custody decisions?

Issues surrounding child custody are one of the most contentious aspects of any divorce proceeding. In a perfect world, parents would be able to reach an easy custody agreement with…

Exercise can improve your mental health during divorce

Divorce has a profound effect on your emotions. This is no surprise. The time you and your spouse have invested together, plans you’ve made, and the comfort of a shared…

Who gets the dog in a North Carolina divorce?

You remember it like it was yesterday. Maybe you and your spouse answered an ad, maybe you visited the dog pound together. Or maybe your spouse just surprised you. Perhaps…

DNA doesn’t always make the rules in divorce

You and your partner have decided to go separate ways, but your stepchildren still need you. Do you have any rights after the divorce? There are no longer ties between…

How to avoid common financial problems in a divorce

When the decision to get a divorce is made, it can often be a time of high emotion for everyone involved. This sometimes means that there is a rush to…

4 tips for using social media properly during a divorce

The Pew Research Center states that approximately seven out of every 10 Americans use social media in some form, and you are likely part of this large group. Social media…

Circumstances may merit a modification in custody

There is no doubt that as a parent, you significantly influence your children’s lives. No matter your income level, walk of life or marital status, you enjoy spending time with…

Finding a custody schedule that works for my child

Divorce is more complicated when children are involved. It’s more than just you and your ex parting ways – your child’s future hangs in the balance as well. This means…

5 ways to make divorce easier for your children

Going through a divorce can be an extremely emotional and challenging time, and it’s almost always more difficult when you have children. Even when both parents remain civil during the…

3 things to remember before crafting a child custody agreement

One of the most difficult parts of divorce is making decisions about the custody of your children. A thousand questions are probably running through your head: Who will have them…

In a divorce, don’t underestimate the role of grandparents

Grandparent relationships with grandchildren vary widely from family to family. In some families, grandparents may live across the country, and grandchildren may only spend time with them on holidays. In…

Keeping your family safe while following a custody order

While the current pandemic forces most families to stay at home, it can create anxious or contentious circumstances for some when it comes to following provisions outlined in a child…

Dividing a family business during a divorce

There are many challenging elements in a divorce, including emotional, financial and personal implications. One of the essential considerations is receiving a fair share of marital assets. But the process…

5 costly divorce mistakes to avoid

Divorce can be an extremely emotional experience not only for the couple ending their marriage but for their families and close friends. However, it’s essential to contain those feelings and…