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A Fresh Approach To
Family Law In Cabarrus County

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A Fresh Approach To
Family Law In Cabarrus County

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How can the divorce affect my child?

On Behalf of | Jun 15, 2023 | Child Custody & Parenting Plans, Divorce

The divorce process is typically straightforward but could put families through significant stress. Going through proceedings could take a toll on the divorcing couple, especially when dealing with disputes concerning crucial matters. However, the children could experience the most trauma during this challenging time.

Divorce is common, but it could be destructive to children’s welfare if not appropriately addressed by their parents. Local policies typically require couples to take co-parenting and divorce courses. They could help educate them on supporting their children during and after the divorce process.

However, children could still suffer despite these measures. Divorce could affect children in varying ways. They could exhibit behavioral and mental health issues, including the following:

  • Blaming self for the divorce
  • Feeling worthless
  • Experiencing anxiety and depression
  • Inability to trust
  • Undergoing pain and grief
  • Isolating themselves
  • Having socialization issues

These adverse effects could intensify and leave long-term damage to the child. Fortunately, parents could take action to address and minimize the divorce’s potential harm.

Preserve your family for your child’s sake

As parents, you and your ex are responsible for giving your child the help they need throughout the divorce. You could mitigate the damage by providing them with open communication and emotional support. Additionally, you could avoid exposing your child to divorce-related conflicts that could make them feel torn between you and your ex. Disagreements could also affect their sense of stability when they need it the most.

However, certain cases are too severe to manage alone, especially if you and your ex are stressed and overwhelmed. If so, you could seek support from family members and friends. When in doubt, you could also hire a mental health professional for guidance and valuable advice on how to help yourself and your child.